Communication
I’m not married. Even when I was married, I wasn’t really married.
I do watch a lot of movies and TV shows. Generally most of their problems can be solved via communication. Is this lack of communication just faked for the effect or do couples actually operate this way ?
Example: 40 year old couple, married for 15-20 years, one teenager one almost teen, woman gets knocked up ….. is each honest about what they want ? Do you tell the partner what you think they want to hear, or do you tell them what you feel ?
What secrets do you keep ? When you were just married, what secrets did you keep ?









I still haven’t told her about all of those bodies or where they’re buried…
I happen to think TV exaggerates how couples communicate with each other. Everyone keeps their own counsel in some way, some in small ways others in bigger ways.
If Hubby ever found out about my love of morcilla I think he would freak
Hm. Things I keep to myself…how many Drumstick ice cream cones are left, where I hide the Hostess fruit pies and sometimes how much I’ve spent on tea pots.
Generally, it’s stuff he doesn’t really care about anyway – except for the drumsticks. Oh, and I don’t share ALL the details of my better dreams. 
Uh, Aggie, after having looked up just what the Hell morcilla is, are you talking about it euphemistically?
If not, that’s one sick food love affair. *Looks for the little puking smiley*